Apr 29, 2013

Political Issue

By julie"anne at 5:41 PM
I am in the middle of writing a paper. But now my head is jammed. Apparently my knowledge is still not enough yet (duhhh)

I like my life right now. I am not in a hurry. Even though my friends are guessing my wedding date, I am still as cool as cucumber (lol). But it is true though. I don't like living in pressure, as I know I can never handle it.

I go to school on weekdays and have casual weekends with Mr. Yu and sometimes with friends. That is so fulfilling enough.

The political scenario in Malaysia is a real life joke, though. I can not decide on which side I want to be. Oh, something weird happened today. Somebody added me on FB and as usual I never accepted strangers. But this person really caught my attention, firstly, because he added me on every social media I have, and secondly, after a thorough inspection and investigation (haha) I find out he is a friend's brother. I gave him a chance and saw his status updates, which mainly talking about politics (he's pro BN, btw) which is actually fine by me. Well, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, right?


I still can accept his answer if only he stopped at his first comment. But then he added "Jadi bijak sikit". Well, not wanting to stoop at his level I answered back(as you can see in the pic). Suddenly he unfriended me and updated a status like "done removing unknown people on his FB". And I was like, what the hell just happened? Wasn't he the one who added me first? And he was so proud that he removed me? Well, be my guest. I am not interested in your opinion at all. Fuck off.

Seriously, Although I say I do not know on which side I want to be, it will definitely not be HIS side, where others' opinions are just dumb and he is soooooooo right. People can't seem to just accept others' opinions or at least respect them.

This is one of the crazy political scenario in Malaysia. Pretty crazy huh?

Apr 17, 2013

Kahwin dan hantaran.

By julie"anne at 1:03 PM


Copy from FB:
Macammana nak kahwin kalau Wang Hantaran Tinggi! nak kumpul RM10,000 bukannya mudah. tu kalau RM10,000 mauye mintak Rm20,000 lagi pengsan nak kumpul.
itulah keluhan yang seringkali kita dengar dari lelaki yang ingin berkahwin. kadangkala si wanita tidak berkisah mengenai wang hantaran cukuplah mas kahwin sahaja kerana tidak ingin membebankan lelaki tetapi si ibu dan bapa pula berkisah dan inginkan wang hantaran yang kadangkala membebankan si lelaki.

mungkin kerana tidak ingin diperkatakan oleh saudara, mungkin tidak ingin menjadi buah mulut jiran tetangga, mungkin kerana anaknya belajar tinggi, mungkin kerana anaknya bekerjaya dan banyak lagi kemungkinan.

Ada juga ibu bapa yg tidak berkisah tetapi bila dihasut oleh saudara dan jiran tetangga maka diletakkan wang hantaran yang tinggi. Ini pun pernah berlaku.

Duit hantaran jadi duit untuk majlis perkahwinan? Ini pun banyak berlaku kerana ibu bapa tidak ingin mengeluarkan duit sendiri untuk majlis perkahwinan. Bukankah duit hantaran itu hadiah untuk bakal isteri?

ternyata ini membebankan bakal suami untuk mendapatkan duit dan oleh kerana inilah ramai yang tidak berkahwin dan mengambil jalan pintas dengan membuat "Pinjaman Peribadi" semata-mata ingin berkahwin dan seterusnya dihimpit dengan pelbagai hutang.

Apa pendapat anda?

mungkin kerana tidak ingin diperkatakan oleh saudara, mungkin tidak ingin menjadi buah mulut jiran tetangga, mungkin kerana anaknya belajar tinggi, mungkin kerana anaknya bekerjaya dan banyak lagi kemungkinan. 
Ada juga ibu bapa yg tidak berkisah tetapi bila dihasut oleh saudara dan jiran tetangga maka diletakkan wang hantaran yang tinggi. Ini pun pernah berlaku.
Duit hantaran jadi duit untuk majlis perkahwinan? Ini pun banyak berlaku kerana ibu bapa tidak ingin mengeluarkan duit sendiri untuk majlis perkahwinan. Bukankah duit hantaran itu hadiah untuk bakal isteri? 
ternyata ini membebankan bakal suami untuk mendapatkan duit dan oleh kerana inilah ramai yang tidak berkahwin dan mengambil jalan pintas dengan membuat "Pinjaman Peribadi" semata-mata ingin berkahwin dan seterusnya dihimpit dengan pelbagai hutang.
Apa pendapat anda?




Ade yang kata takde duit, takyah gatal sangat nak kahwin. Sedangkan walimah itu tak wajib, and perkahwinan itu sunnah rasul.

Sesetengah kata kalau tak mampu bagi hantaran tinggi, ape jaminan boleh jaga anak orang selepas kahwin? Soalannya, dia kahwin dengan anak jin ke? Makan pakai sampai beribu-ribu sebulan. Daripada mampu nak makan secukupnya bulan-bulan, jadi tersepit hidup dengan hutang. Itu lagi bagus ke?

Ada yang kata kita orang melayu hidup dengan adat. Jawapan saya, saya hidup berlandaskan agama. Kalau awak nak teruskan adat awak, awak punya pasal.

Saya terima semua dengan hati terbuka. kalau ada Alhamdulillah, kalau tak ada pun syukur. Sebab itu semua rezeki Allah.

Apr 12, 2013

October Road

By julie"anne at 10:23 AM
genre: drama

Glass, Concrete and stone
NowI'm wakin' at the crack of dawn to send a little money home from here to the moon is risin' like a discothequeand now my bags are down and packed for traveling
Lookin' at happiness keepin' my flavor fresh nobody knows I guess how far I'll go, I know so I'm leavin' at Six O' Clock meet in a parkin' lot Harriet Hendershot sunglasses on, she waits by this
Glass and concrete and stone It is just a house, not a home.
Skin, that covers me from head to toe except a couple tiny holes and openings Where, the city's blowin' in and out this is what it's all about, delightfully
Everything's possible when you're an animal not inconceivable How things can change, I know
So I'm puttin' on aftershave nothin' is out of place gonna be on my way Try to pretend, it's not only
Glass and concrete and stone That it's just, not a home. And its glass and concrete and stone
It is just a house, not a home And my head is fifty feet high Let my body and soul be my guide
You just know when it is time to come home, after years of adventure. You just know where your heart belongs. But you don't know what has or has not changed. You have no idea, what kind of blowback you will get after leaving for so long.You will never know there is still an unfinished business until you come back.

This series is all about that; how friends can be loyal, how love lives and never dies.

No matter how fancy you are living, you have to come back. After all, it is still just a house, not a home. 
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