Dec 31, 2013

2013

By julie"anne at 10:06 AM
January - I was still down during this time of this year. So many conflicts with family and still trying to adapt myself to the change. It was small thing like this (link) helped cheer me up, other than Mr. Yu.

February - on the 13th enrolled for Masters Programme in University of Malaya. Meh, nothing important. Still no progress in my family improvement. I couldn't care less.

March - on the fifth was our fifth anniversary (link). This date is the most important date in our relationship. I guess we will be celebrating this day even more than any day in our lives.

April - nothing specific.

May - witnessed a very terrible accident (link). That was by far the worst I have ever seen.

Jun - month full of events. On the second, we got engaged. on the 13th was my birthday and on the 29th we got married!! Yeay! Everything happened in a short time. Sampai ada yang fitnah kami kawen terburu-buru, macam nak cover something. Hahaha. Those people and their shallow mentalities. Let them be. As long as we are happy together, it's more than enough. (here and here)

July - First Ramadhan fell on the9th of July this Year. Mr Yu wanted to give his parents a surprise by going home on the day before Ramadhan. This was the first time I ever been to Terengganu. People find it weird that I have never set foot at my in-laws'. But my parents are quite strict when it comes to meeting other guy. That's why certain things are better left unsaid. lol!

August - Hari Raya! It was Eid ul Ftri. Had a very long raya. On the 4th of Syawal, which was on the 11th of August, there was a small reception at my in-laws' (link)

September - BSN's Family Day at Bukit Merah Laketown Resort! Had some mi udang and green tea frappe at kapitan classic white coffee cafe. And threw out right in front of the Restaurant. Still didn't suspect anything. But later that month we bought home pregnancy test kit and found out I was actually pregnant! Yeay! (link) Nak beli kit tu pun boleh gaduh depan kaunter Watson. Hahaha. Masing-masing malu nak bertanya. And Mr. Yu was being mean when he called for assistance and left me there, by myself. I just stood there staring at him, as he was trying to get away. But then he came back. Maybe he knew I was mad, maybe he saw how I was embarrassed. Oh, those were the days. Hahah. I then did a check up at PPUM and found out I was already couple of weeks pregnant.

October - was my first antenatal check-up (link). Hihihi. First trimester was the worst! I was so weak. After my wedding, I guess my relationship with parents is getting better. They now could see clearly now how I was being the victim. Thanks to my wicked auties and this stupid guy in my family. Hahaha. Semua yang berlaku ada hikmahnya. Thank you Allah!

November - Had the second antenatal appointment. Aaaannnnnddd the Sabah Trip!! It was a blast!

December - Here we are. Last Saturday we went for 4d scan. We went home satisfied! Although the clinic was quite far from home (clinic Qistina at Sri Kembangan) , It was cheaper there. MYR 105 including the CD was OK. In KL the same thing costs MYR 120 to 200. Isn't that crazy?

So, 2014. What have you got for me? 2013 had made me tougher and stronger. I am braver than ever now.

Dec 27, 2013

Hubby is sick.

By julie"anne at 11:06 PM

Sayu pula hati tengok orang demam, tapi masih ade hati nak bawak wifey pusing2. Eventhough naik kereta, but I knew he was in great pain. The wifey pulak macam tak ada hari lain dah kan. 


He is like that. My needs are his priorities. He is selfles. He is kind. He is patient, even to his spoilt-brat wifey. I, on the other hand, am quite an opposite to all those qualities. But I am pretty sure I am kind enough. Hehe. 


I love you, sayang. Get well soon!!

Kasut

By julie"anne at 6:16 PM
Dulu susah. Pergi sekolah pakai kasut yang ada je. Itupun kalau ada. Kalau hujan kasut tak sempat kering, esoknya pakai kasut bola siapa punya tah tersadai. Pernah pakai kasut yang dh kopak pun. Ikat dengan getah. Jalan hincut-hincut takut getah putus. Dimarah, dikutuk cikgu. Still tabahkan hati belajar.



Dear baby,
mommy loves you. I will make sure it won't happen to you. I know how it feels. I will try my best to give you the best in this world. I just hope you will be greater than us, because we love you.

a letter to Angie.

By julie"anne at 5:51 PM
“My wife got sick.  She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. 

She has lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs.

She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up. 

Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. 

I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it. 
After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth. 

She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.

I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.

You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much. And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“              

- Brad Pitt 

And I want you to know, I have felt the greatest love ever.Thank you, love!

Dec 26, 2013

Male Obgyn.

By julie"anne at 11:52 AM
This is , I think, a very sensitive issue towards Malay men. Most of them bila bercakap pasal doc lelaki yang sambut anak lahir, macam orang tu buat dosa besar. Eh, orang tu selamatkan nyawa anak isteri kau. Guna alasan aurat? Habis antara perempuan tak ada aurat? Yang hari biasa tu jaga dulu auratnya kut, baru nak cakap pasal hal tu kat dlm bilik bersalin. Kalau nak sangat, sambut anak tu sendiri. Baru tahu kut susah senangnya. Orang lelaki islam ni pelik sikit egonya. 

Of course I won't be comfortable being attended by male doc. I won't even be comfortable having anyone looking at my hoo-haw. I would of course request for female doc. Tapi kalau dah tak ada, takkan nak suruh Mr. Yu je yang sambut. Come on people. Kerja diorang dah susah, jangan disusahkan. Kalau rasa benda tu senang, kenapa masa sekolah dulu tak ambil medicine? Hah, pergilah jadi doktor sana. Cuba tengok, mampukah anda?

Dec 20, 2013

Mengalah

By julie"anne at 12:03 PM
In a relationship, there is no winner. No matter, if you think you are right, if you still want to win, you will never make it to the end.

Too bad if most of the time you could only think about yourself, not what you could do to make things work. Sigh. Stop being selfish and start working as a unit. Sometimes you may have to sacrifice your feelings. Sometimes it is not a bad thing if you speak your heart out too. 

Dec 17, 2013

I don't want to live in this place anymore.

By julie"anne at 9:00 AM
It is not a secret anymore that I despise living in Malaysia. Life in Malaysia is becoming more suffering, day by day. Everyday there will be reports on price hikes, money laundering, political circus, crimes and many more.

Mr. Hubby is very conscious about this matter. He will discuss everything with me. But, I have come to the point that I just have to accept everything so that I can remain calm. He already knows my feelings. He understands I hate it here. But we can not do anything about it, as we are already trapped here. I will always try to find a way out. But, we'll see.

I still miss Nuernberg. I still miss Germany. But our families are still in Malaysia. And we can not leave them just like that. We have responsibility and we can not afford to leave it just like that. sighhhhh. what a dilemma!

Dec 13, 2013

Chennai Express

By julie"anne at 4:42 PM


It suddenly rains so heavily in KL. I should've expected that, knowing it is the monsoon season. Luckily I am done shopping. Well, well, well. Who knows retail therapy does really help!

While I was waiting for the bus, a girl came to me asking for help. She wore tudung and a little short sleeved baby T. She asked if she could use my phone to call home since hers ran out of battery. 

I was at first very sceptical. I blame the humanity nowadays. But then looking at her, she is so fragile. What could she do? I asked myself. 

I took out my phone, dialed it for her and handed it to her. She took and suddenly:

"Hello amma. Ayoyyo. Bla bla bla. Battri yillek. Ayoyyo. Bla bla bla."

She ended the call and thanked me. I was glad I could help. On the other hand, I would like to thank Chennai Express. Lol!

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By julie"anne at 2:53 AM
I know you both have moved on. It was just a joke. Why did you have to take it seriously?

I know you love me. If not you wouldn't be here. Why did you think I ever doubted you? 

But then the way you acted give me tons of reasons to be doubtful. 

Sorry if I am being annoying. You can leave me, if you want. I won't mind. I can live with this baby on my own. Go find some not-annoying girl. If I can make it through tonight by myself, I can make it for the rest of my life too. I have lived before you. Trust me, I won't die. 

Dec 12, 2013

18 Weeks

By julie"anne at 10:22 AM
We are almost halfway through, sayang!

Though I am becoming more energetic, I am still not strong enough to scrub the floor and do heavy duty jobs. Just last Sunday I scrubbed the balcony's and the kitchen's floor, and the next day my back pained so much, I couldn't even get up. But I liked it when it clean. Mr. Hubby fixed the mirror in the bathroom and cleaned it. Thanks for the help, sayang!

I think we are having a baby boy, according to Shida's book. My skin is dry and I crave for protein. Well, whatever. We don't really mind, as long as it is healthy and has a specific gender (of course, duhh!), mommy and daddy are gonna be happy parents.

I enjoyed playtime with Sofiya. Oh, I love her. I am a mommy already, the moment Shida gave birth to her. She is a little precious.

I hate that I am now fat. I don't have proper dress and  I hate buying those ugly maternity dresses. ughhh! Daddy, mommy wants to go shopping!

49:11

By julie"anne at 10:10 AM

O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one's] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers.

Be patient. Don't ever let your anger consume you. 

Dec 5, 2013

Saving

By julie"anne at 8:51 AM
Today on the way to UM we listened to Mix.fm. The topic was the weird way to save electricity. Someone suggested to visit friends at convenient hours, like 7 p.m., at which we would consume power the most. At the same time we could be saving our dinner budget. I had a good laugh at that. Simultaneously we thought of Lyd. Hahaha.

Then, the lady DJ suggested the mall. The Mr. Yu went like, "Noooo lady! That's not a good idea. That is even worse than not saving electricity." And I laughed so much.

Mr. Yu is not that stingy and I am, imo, not a spender as well. I like it, when he doesn't really mind about me spending. Not like some people who keep nagging about money. OMG! That is literally the worst!

Sometimes I just want to shout it in their faces, that I've had enough listening to their nagging. Come on! Really? You want to say, you don't have enough, when you earn twice I make every month, with less responsibility and commitment than what I have? Learn how to be thankful, man! 

Seriously. I've never heard Mr. Yu complains about money, to me or his friends. And we have never felt so desperate to keep nagging about it. We know how much we make, and we know how to spend and save for rainy days. Manage your money without telling people your account balance. That will keep you worry-free! 

And never ever be so stingy and so calculative. Have you ever heard of 'what you give is what you get'? 

Dec 4, 2013

My hubby

By julie"anne at 2:40 PM

My best friend, life's companion, my soulmate.

'We are just friends'
'There's nothing could happen between us'

So you still think friends should never get together? Do you still believe being married to a non-friend is the ideal idea?

While you are still in THAT zone, you don't know what you have been missing out. For me, I am glad, that I am married to this guy. A really good friend, even before we get together.

I love you, hubby!




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